Setting Ex-hubby Straight (G-uno)

Jane is furious that Ex-hubby rather graphically told their kids about walking in on her & Tarzan having sex, so after setting her kids straight she had a heart to heart with him. Jane told us at lunch she called him, of course “The infant” (sorry our caddy little nickname for the 24 year-old girlfriend ;)) answered the phone. Jane says that this is becoming a regular thing now whenever she calls him. Imagine that, the young woman doesn’t trust her cheating man.
Jane told Ex-hubby that he could not just drop by without calling anymore. He told her that it was his house so he would come by whenever he wished. She reminded him that he couldn’t wait to move out of that house so perhaps he should reacquaint himself with that memory whenever he got the urge to stop by.
Jane asked him what he thought he would accomplish by sharing the details of his drive by with their children? He told her that she had made him the bad guy with the kids first, and that he thought it was only fair that the kids knew he wasn’t the only bad parent. Jane said she was livid, and told him even though he has decided to relive his childhood he should remember that he is the bad guy. She told him in case he’d forgotten he started his affair before their marriage had even come to an end.
He told Jane their marriage had ended long before he had stepped out that door. Jane told him that he could of chosen to end it officially, but decided to be a cheating, lying piece of shit instead! Then she said if our relationship was so over then why were you so bothered by seeing me move on with my life? He told her that she wasn’t moving on that she was trying to punish him for falling for “the infant ;)” by seeing Tarzan!
Jane told him that he was delusional, and that if he hadn’t of jumped so quickly to become her rebound that she, and Tarzan probably would have gotten back together! (Now that one was meant to hurt him) Jane said it pissed her off that Ex-hubby was implying that the only reason Tarzan was seeing her was to settle a 3 decade old wound. Followed by a fuck you, you arrogant bastard. Then she told him to go make a life with your infant, stay the fuck out of my life, and that way you won’t have anything rubbed into your cheating, lying face.
I don’t know about you all, but I’m feeling the burn from that conversation myself. Sorry it has taken me so long to get this post out. Between our daughter’s wedding planning, and my job I can’t seem to keep up. Jane seems to think that she put Ex-hubby into his place closing the door to that relationship. I don’t know about the rest of you, but I’m not so sure that this was the final conversation on this subject. 😦

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  1. #1 by Rita on March 17, 2016 - 1:37 pm

    I gotta agree with you because this brings flashbacks of my own parents nasty divorce after pop was found with his hands in a red head’s cookie jar.

    That shit escalated until my sisters and I got them in the same place and let them know that at that point we weren’t fond of keeping either one of them in our lives. Bam! That shit was done.

    • #2 by idioglossiablog on March 17, 2016 - 9:04 pm

      That must have been brutal for you all. We are all certainly capable of screwing things up, (some pun intended 😉 ) but I know for sure Jane has been keeping the lid on this relationship from both Ex-hubby and their kids.(Yes again some pun intended 🙂 ) I am seriously missing you & Oceanswaters on here. The pun fun is dedicated to you all. OX G-uno

  2. #3 by KcRambles on March 17, 2016 - 2:00 pm

    How did she make him the bad guy? Her ex is really full of himself. It is obvious seeing her with Tarzan hit him hard. Although, he has no right to feel wounded, mad or vengeful.
    Has the divorce not gone through yet, that he still has access to the house? If he thinks he’s entitled to go to the house then Jane is entitled to go to where he is living, but she doesn’t.
    I don’t know what this guys problem is he left his wife not the other way around, she did not cheat, so I don’t know why he is acting as if she did him wrong. And I agree with you too I don’t think it will be the last of it. He won’t let her get on without sticking his nose in her business.

    • #4 by idioglossiablog on March 17, 2016 - 8:59 pm

      I’m as lost as you are except that to be honest when all of this first came out we did make some pretty snarky remarks about him, and “The Infant.” 😉 It does make me wonder what’s going on in his house. I think some part of him may have always believed he was Jane’s second choice. I can tell you he may have come 2nd in numerical order, but he was never second. G-uno

      • #5 by idioglossiablog on March 17, 2016 - 9:12 pm

        I’m sorry I forgot to answer your question. No the divorce isn’t final. That’s a whole different battle. G-uno

  3. #6 by Polysyllabic Profundities on March 17, 2016 - 6:09 pm

    Yikes….what a mess!

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