Sex With The Married Ex (G-uno)

Jane said it was actually different from all the sex they’d had during their marriage. She thought it was going to be like riding a bicycle something familiar that would not require any thought. As it turned out that was in fact not the case at all. Apparently when someone rides another bicycle for a while they change their riding style, right down to the way they kiss.
In an awkward way she felt like she was also sleeping with his young wife. apparently Ex-hubby has picked up some new moves. So of course I asked her if he had improved? She smiled then said it was different not better. So of course I asked for some details.
Kissing technique has definitely not improved. Apparently he holds his mouth differently, and uses an over abundance of tongue. His young wife requires him to go to the gym so his body was in better shape than when she last saw him naked so that was a plus. He was pleasantly more skilled in the oral department. Jane attributes this to the previously mentioned changes in his kissing technique, the over abundance of tongue with a stiffer mouth positioning worked better for her in this region. His timing remained the same, but Jane reminded me that he had been using Viagra while they were still married.
Then of course I had to ask her if the sex was better than it was with Tarzan? (Don’t shake your heads you know you want to know too. πŸ˜‰ ) That’s when her face changed to sadness, and she said “No it wasn’t.” Tarzan, and Jane were having some really good sex before the whole I have a daughter secret. It was clear that Jane misses both him, and their steamy jungle sex.
Finally I asked the biggest question of all “Did she regret sex with the Ex, and would she do it again? Ok I already knew she regretted it, but for my own sanity I needed her to say it out loud. LOL a kind of reassurance that I would never have to revisit that disturbing thought again mentally. Jane reassured me that it would not happen again. She and Ex-hubby likened it to the concept of “You can never go home again.”
Jane said when they had finished they both knew that this would not happen again. As for regret, she didn’t regret it. She felt completely like the tiny lit crack into the door of her past was finally a door she could close without looking back. Even though it was a little sad it was also a relief. Then she looked me in the eye, and said “I think I made a huge mistake. I want Tarzan back.”

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  1. #1 by Moi on January 26, 2017 - 4:13 pm

    Tell her to go for it. Either Tarzan slams the door or opens it wide. One way or another she gets to have a new life.
    Her ex is an idiot.

    • #2 by idioglossiablog on January 26, 2017 - 4:19 pm

      Moi Jane has serious trust issues because of the Ex cheating. So when Tarzan didn’t tell her right upfront about his daughter she broke it off with him. I really don’t know what’s the right thing to tell her. G-uno

  2. #3 by Moi on January 26, 2017 - 5:11 pm

    What was his reason for not telling her about his daughter? Was it a fairly new relationship that he was still exploring with his child? I think, generally speaking, men are idiots. And I am married to one, the mother of one, the sister of one, the daughter of one.

    • #4 by idioglossiablog on January 26, 2017 - 8:46 pm

      Great I need the opinion of someone who has great experience with idiots. He didn’t tell her because he made the decision not to be a part of this child’s life right from the start. She is an adult now, and wanted to make contact. To make matters more idiotic he hid the fact that she contacted him and that he agreed to meet with her. So Jane felt like he was deceitful /untrustworthy, and broke up with him. G-uno

  3. #5 by oceanswater on January 26, 2017 - 6:54 pm

    What Moi said… πŸ™‚

  4. #6 by Polysyllabic Profundities on January 26, 2017 - 8:37 pm

    Wow….I feel like I have been away from this story for such a long time. At least she can close that window and wait for the door to open…whether it is Tarzan’s door or another door.

    • #7 by idioglossiablog on January 26, 2017 - 8:40 pm

      It’s a story that never seems to end for me lol In your opinion should she give Tarzan another chance? G-uno

      • #8 by Polysyllabic Profundities on January 26, 2017 - 8:43 pm

        I’m going to have to catch up on a few posts before I weigh in on that one…..but trust me, once the wine is poured, I’m back in the jungle (so to speak). πŸ™‚

  5. #12 by Moi on January 26, 2017 - 11:56 pm

    I am of the opinion, which matters not al all, that she should talk to Tarzan. He did not bond with that child. He was, in essence, her sperm donor. She wanted info so she contacted him and knocked him sideways. People are curious about their origins. He was probably so confused over the whole idea that he just hunkered down. I guarantee my husband would do the same thing.(I told you they are morons). Jane was still reeling from the “you know what” that she was married to. The looney that had an affair, shared her (unknowingly) with his partner, who got her pregnant, and married her anyway. He ought to be examined for brain worms. Anyway, Tarzan might actually have a decent relationship with his daughter or they both might have enough info to move on. I do know of an adoptive woman who found her birth parents. She and the mother never made a connection but she did with her father. Sometimes good things come at you sideways and it takes a while to see them. Jane has a daughter so she could be a great support for them.
    If you need another epistle let me know.

    • #13 by idioglossiablog on February 13, 2017 - 2:57 pm

      Thanks so much! I am a fan of Tarzan even though he did a dumb thing. πŸ˜‰ Stay tuned I may need you again they talked! G-uno

  6. #14 by Jay on February 2, 2017 - 7:07 pm

    I remember the first time I had sex with my ex husband after our separation….definitely weird to go there again.

  7. #16 by Polysyllabic Profundities on February 7, 2017 - 3:45 pm

    Okay….now I’m caught up. What a crazy ride this is! I think the biggest barrier between Jane and Tarzan is their lack of communication. If they are going to make this work he needs to be honest and she needs to ask questions. She can’t just anticipate that he is going to be forthcoming about something he obviously feels uncomfortable about but if she asks the questions and he feels she is not going to judge, he may give her all the answers without feeling like he has to hide anything.

    • #17 by idioglossiablog on February 13, 2017 - 2:49 pm

      Well said! So they did talk… Khaleesi had her baby πŸ˜‰ G-uno

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