Jane Tells Tarzan That She Slept With Ex-hubby (G-uno)

In the spirit of truthful beginnings Jane decided to confess that she had slept with her Ex-hubby while she, and Tarzan were broken up. As you might imagine this was a complete disaster! As if Tarzan wasn’t already swimming in the land of insecurities regarding Jane he now found himself insanely jealous. He was also pretty pissed. Sex with the Ex rarely turns out to be a good decision, and sharing that information with someone you hope to build a relationship with is an even worse decision,
Don’t get me wrong I am a huge fan of telling the truth, but I’m an even bigger fan of leaving Exes in the Ex zone. Why did Jane tell him about her disastrous slip you ask? Well the even better question here is why she decided to tell him this after the first time she, and Tarzan slept together since their break-up. Jane said that after making love to Tarzan she was filled with guilt. She said that she just decided to put it all out there rather than taking the chance of Ex-hubby being the one toΒ let the cat of the bag in the long run.
I absolutely got the logic in that concept, it was the timing that threw me off the deep end. I probably would have opted for confessing before the reunion sex. πŸ˜‰

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  1. #1 by Moi on May 17, 2017 - 1:13 pm

    This just proves that we never grow up.

    • #2 by idioglossiablog on May 18, 2017 - 6:23 pm

      Who do think needs to do the growing up in this scenario? G-uno

      • #3 by g2 on May 22, 2017 - 8:09 pm

        It makes me wonder what she would have done if Tarzan told her that… would it be reliving the moment of the Ross/Rachel “we were on a break!” bs?

        • #4 by idioglossiablog on June 7, 2017 - 3:36 pm

          Twin minds share twin thoughts. I did ask her that question. She caught the point very quick;y. πŸ˜‰ We never see ourselves, do we? G-uno

  2. #5 by oceanswater on May 17, 2017 - 2:57 pm

    I say never tell, even if they stick tooth picks in your nails… πŸ™‚

  3. #8 by Brian on May 17, 2017 - 6:11 pm

    Have to believe we’re allowed to have a history that, if it’s a no harm – no foul situation, is allowed to be kept secret. Or at least “don’t ask don’t tell”.

    And what a welcome back post!

    • #9 by idioglossiablog on May 18, 2017 - 6:20 pm

      Thanks Brian I really rode the fence on this one, πŸ™‚ G-uno

    • #10 by g2 on May 22, 2017 - 8:10 pm

      I see the merits of both, but personally, I would want to know… if nothing else to not have the ex and his former buddy, out it from spite or something. being the first to give me the good news.

      • #11 by Brian on May 25, 2017 - 4:46 pm

        There are definitely things that must be revealed, especially if it’s a condition that could affect the person you are dealing with. But if it’s something like the Guinness record number of wild oats you sowed your last 2 years at college – as long as there were no pregnancies or STD’s, I see no problem with lowering your “number” a wee bit.

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